Nostalgia Deepens Connection! Newsletter - Week 7
Welcome back to our weekly newsletter! This week we're exploring the beautiful science of nostalgia and how reminiscing together can strengthen your relationship bonds.
This Week's Tale for Two
Nostalgia Deepens Connection!
Research shows that reminiscing together can boost relationship satisfaction by reminding couples of shared meaning and emotional milestones. It activates warm, positive feelings and helps people see their partner through a more loving lens.
— Wildschut et al., 2006 – Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
This fascinating research reveals something profound about human connection. When couples take time to revisit their shared memories - both the big moments and the small ones - they're not just looking backward. They're actively strengthening their bond by reinforcing the narrative of their relationship. Nostalgia literally rewires our brains to focus on the positive aspects of our experiences and our partner, creating a warm glow that extends into the present moment.
Your Next Date Idea
Look at a map of your neighborhood and mark places tied to your shared memories (first ice cream, best laugh, worst rainstorm, etc). Then go for a walk and stop at each one!
This memory mapping adventure perfectly captures the power of shared nostalgia:
- Physical journey - walking through your actual shared history
- Story sharing - retelling the moments that made each place special
- Rediscovery - seeing familiar places through the lens of your relationship
- Present connection - bringing past joy into your current experience
Pro tip: Don't just focus on the "perfect" moments! Sometimes the memories of getting caught in the rain or the restaurant that gave you food poisoning make for the best stories and strongest bonds.
Personal Note
This week we handed out almost all of our prototype decks to playtesters. We've already started working on expansion ideas too! It's been such a reminder that relationships, like games, are built one small story at a time. We hope this week's date inspires you to revisit some of yours.
There's something magical about watching our little game go out into the world and start creating new stories for couples. Each playtester feedback session feels like we're collecting tiny pieces of relationship wisdom. And as we start dreaming up expansion packs, we're realizing that every couple has their own unique adventure style - some love the silly challenges, others gravitate toward the romantic moments, and some are all about the food discoveries. It's beautiful to see how many different ways there are to connect and create memories together.
Card of the Week
This week's featured card is "Memory Match" – a card that invites couples to share a random memory from their relationship, with their partner responding with one from around the same time. It's the perfect embodiment of how revisiting shared history can deepen your connection and help you see your journey together through fresh eyes.
Snapshot of the Week
Tag us on Instagram @talesfortwogame or send us an email with your photos to get featured in next week's newsletter! We love seeing couples out there creating their own adventures and sharing those moments of joy and discovery.
This week's snapshot captures that beautiful feeling of shared joy - the kind that happens when you're fully present with each other and soaking in the moment, knowing it's going to become one of those memories you'll look back on fondly.
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Until next week, keep making memories together!
With love and adventure,
— The Tales for Two Team
P.S. What's your favorite shared memory from this past year? We'd love to hear about the moments that made you smile when you think back on them together!
